Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Cheers!



Bah. Some weeks I feel like super blogger, extra creative, bursting with words, awesome Mom. Then other weeks I feel like there is nothing that I can write that is witty, creative, or cool.
Oh look. It's Wednesday...can I just post a bunch of random pictures of The Child and call it a "Wordless Wednesday" post?
Sigh.
Probably not, I do not wish to anger you, my readers, my Faithful Few. I know you hang on to every single word that I type, like it was the last breath you could take, or the last drop of vodka for your cosmo.... what? Cosmos?! Who drinks those girly drinks anyways...
Ahem.
This past week has been one that I feel like could have written something amazing everyday, as it was a very full week. I discovered things about people that I never knew, learned that there really is something called Hypnobirthing (talk to me in person if you really want to know what I think), and I had two grown women who I've looked up to my whole life, weep on the phone to me, leaning on me for encouragement and love. Talk about a heavy reversal of roles!
My favorite part of the week, I have to say, was participating in a Mother's Blessing. Forget Baby Showers and their ridiculous games (Clothespin game.. the worst!!!). That event has impacted me for the rest of my life. What a treasure and honor to initiate a mother into her journey of labor and birth. To feed her words of wisdom, encouragement, love, joy and tears. (Tears as in the drops the come from you eyes when you are an emotional mess. Not tears as in ripping. That might come later in her journey. I am currently sending her stretchy vibes!) Don't even get me started on the most delicious chocolate cake that we devoured (among other delicacies) after the Blessing was complete. Actually, I would say that the food was a very important part of the Blessing. We fed our spirits, souls... and then our belly's. We were full in every aspect.
Being around such amazing and powerful women caused me to remember and love the important women in my own life. It's amazing how memories can be invoked with food.
Yes.
Food. Or beverage.
For as long as I could remember, one of my Grandma's most favored beverages (at least the one she would drink in the open) was club soda with lemon. I always thought it was gross. Hello. Where is the sugar?!? I'm not sure when my own Mother started partaking in the beverage, whether it was before or after Grandma passed away. But slowly it started to grow on me too. Almost like we were honoring one of our small memories of her every time we opened a can of ice cold, Club Soda. Enjoying it thoroughly with lemon and ice, on a very hot, summers day.

So here's to Grandma... I miss her more than I allow myself to think about.
And also to my Mother, whom I also miss more than I allow myself to think about.
Good thing she's only in Hawaii, and shortly we will be together again, enjoying on of these on a very hot, summers day.




5 comments:

~Becky said...

I want to be your mother and enjoy a club soda with you. Ok, maybe the last part, but perhaps not the first. There is no way on God's green earth anyone can be Gloria other than Gloria. She is a gem like no other, and YOU are a BLESSED mother to have such a BLESSED mother...who had such a BLESSED mother. Miss you Gramma too...I always eat bridge mix all because of you!
xoxo to all the fabulous ladies!

Trish said...

Cheers to you too!

Mama4Real said...

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Gloriah said...

Thanks for the teary eyes this morning...**jerk...
Club soda will always remind me of Grandma. It was crazy how she would always make it look soo refreshing...that's what got me started on it.(when she was still around) it was one of those "drinks" we could enjoy together. And yes, roles do change and for that I am so thankful. You are such a strength to me and always have been. I will even go as far as to say when you were first born, I knew that I could make it because I felt stronger now that I had you in my life. So thank you daughter o mine, for not just being there, but being able to touch upon life that creates moments that we can treasure so deeply. And thanks Becky, you are an amazing friend, and wonderful addition to our family, who I have been blessed to see in my daughters life. and because of you I just might go out and buy some bridge mix..I had forgotten about that tasty trait of my mom's.

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